Note 8/Lexus Bluetooth Issue

[Android Central Question]

I dont have an issue connecting my Galaxy Note 8 to any bluetooth devices. But when I try and connect my phone to my GFs Lexus(450H), it tells me "please verify the portable player settings" and idk why? I've seen some people say you need to connect calls before media audio or vice versa but when I click connect and try to turn one of them off so the other can connect first, it still gives me the error message. Any solutions or tips? Its just really annoying that its ONLY this car. The car connects to her Google Pixel 3 fine.