I already have that unticked. I also tried playing with the battery manager option under wifi (I forget exactly what it was called. It was supposed to manage battery life while on wifi), as well as setting the wifi to never sleep, which is how I had it set before I flashed 4.2
I'm just backing everything up. My plan is to root and flash a different baseband to see if that helps at all. I'll try to post back in a couple hours. I'm gonna be at home, and sitting at my desk about 5 feet from the router, so I should be able to tell fairly quickly if it makes a difference. All my apps are the same, and how/when i use it is the same, so there are only 3 things that have changed:
1) Went from the latest AOKP ROM (based on 4.1) to stock 4.2
2) Went from Franco's M6 kernel to stock kernel -- and this shouldn't affect wifi as far as I know
3) Went from a North America specific baseband (UGLA1) to stock (XXsomething or other)
I'll start with what seems the most likely culprit -- the baseband -- and go from there.