No way will Apply allow VZW to control the updates. Apple isn't going to have their phones running 2, 3 or 4 different versions of an OS like Android phones do. I picked up a Windows Phone 7 a couple weeks ago. I'll be getting an update from Microsoft, not T-Mobile. And as a developer, I can count on my users at least having the ability to all be on the same versions (talking iOS and Windows Phone 7). With Android, I'm stuck developing on a 1.6 SDK just so I reach a larger audience.
As I've said in many other posts, Android is my #1 OS and my favorite, but the fragmentation makes it my last choice when selecting a platform for an application, and what I least recommend to my business clients.