Ok, so, here's my question. You bought a Nexus. You bought it knowing it was a new piece of hardware with a new software platform (it's been said by Google engineers that the leap from 2.3 to 4 is just as big as the leap from 1.5 to 2.2), but let's ignore that just for a minute. You bought a phone and have multiple issues with it. What *good* is it doing you to come into these forums, or any forums for that matter, just to whine and complain about it? It would have likely taken you less time to package the thing up and drive over to Verizon, and exchange it for something you like, rather than come up with this witty thread, no? And by the end of your forum post, I bet you were just as unhappy with it as you were before you posted it. Why not go and exchange it and be happy instead of wasting your time by posting about how horrible your experience was?
Look, forums including this one are a place to go and get help when you are having issues. We have an awesome community here that could provide you with help or workaround for your issues. But there are two ways to go about posting those issues. You either A. post them in a whiney sarcastic diatribe, showing how unhappy you are with the device while exhibiting no desire to make your user experience better, or B. post those issues in a thoughtful and calm manner, listing any steps you know of to reproduce your issues, and asking those of us who have had and successfully solved or worked around those issues to provide some help.
Unfortunately, you chose option A. You chose it because you wish to make it known how unhappy you are, while also backhandedly bashing us for enjoying our devices by being sarcastic because you felt the need to try and be witty. Of course you're going to be flamed for a post like that. Of course nobody is going to want to help you and offer you possible workaround until Google can get the major issues patched...because you really make it seem like you don't want help and just want to be miserable.
Folks, I understand if you absolutely hate this device, but threads like this don't do anything to help you, they don't provide anything to us, and they certainly don't put you in the good graces of people who CAN help you. They do nothing for everyone. Everyone loses.
I really wish that people who have major issues either constructively reach out for help in solving those issues, or just go and exchange their devices. This way, everyone is happy. You're happy that you have a new device. We're happy that we don't have to see threads like this clog up the place. Everyone moves on and the world keeps spinning.
Yeesh.