I understand what your saying but, from my experience with ordering from Apple; if you get up and order when things go live, you will get your phone pretty soon. The people who wait an hour or two, and especially a few days after launch are the ones that see those type of wait times. So while I agree that the issue is not unique to Google, I don't think it directly compares to Apple.
I understand the frustration, so I'm not going to criticize anyone. It doesn't really bother me, I guess I'm used to it now. I just keep watching videos and reviews of the phone, and have fun reading people getting their shipping notifications.
I've bought all the Nexus phones, and the absolute worst experience for me was the Verizon Galaxy Nexus. I won't talk about it any further. All my other Nexus orders I was always fast and lucky enough to snatch one before things got crazy.