Don't use ROM manager, lol.
Is the ROM on your internal sd card? I'm not familiar with where RM stores it.. Did you make a backup before trying to flash?
Pull battery.. replace.. hold vol up+down and power to get to the bootloader. Use vol down to scroll to recovery, hit power to select.. hopefully this will get you into CWR. From there I would check to see if the ROM is on your sd card, you can go to Instal zip from sd card and scroll around to find it. If its there, back out, wipe data/factory reset, then install it and reboot.
If its not on your sd card tho.. go to backup/restore and see if you have a backup, if you do.. restore it, when your up and running again download the ROM straight to your sd card and install following instructions above.
Let me know how this works out and if your still stuck..
Thanks for your help! I did get back to CWR but I couldnt find the rom on the sd card. I was able to restore to the previous setting. Thanks again!
Obvioulsy I'm new to this... If I shouldnt use rom manager where is the best place to roms/mods and what is the process after that? I'm coming from a Palm Pre where there was an awesome ap for finding and installing homebrew patches right from the phone. Is there anything like that here?