Alright, I turned off my virus protection (It actively scans zip files that's why) downloaded it twice and I get a missing file on the verification of the zip "system/etc/init.d/10apps2sd" I flash it without the verification and the gapps and take my sd-card out (It has an ext partition) ok it boots ok (without spamming the home button) without the sd-card in it, now I re-flash everything just as I did and now when I boot with the sd-card in and now -extremely weird- It gets through the boot and then it restarts the boot animation and says that it is optonizing all of the applications like in ICS but it does get through the boot I guess it was just a bad download the last time I tried...
Edit: On reboot with sd-card it boots fine without the optimizing the applications screen, thank you for all of your help and thank you sellers86 for your amazing rom
Edit 2: Actually I just re-flashed and booted with my sd-card in and actually it hangs at the boot animation and when I plugged in my usb to the computer to reboot it in adb so I dont have to do a battery pull it freezes the boot animation, restarts it and the boot sound and then half way through the boot sound it stops and gives the optimizing apps witch I have never seen before on a GB rom ever... -weird- I know that all sounds a little far fetched but it really does do that