My last phone, the HTC Touch Pro would die if I did not plug it in every night so I am very pleased with the EVO battery life.
4G is not available so I don't use it and I have the phone set to default to wifi which is what I normally use for data unless on the road.
I talk on the phone 4 or 5 times a day but I am not a 'long talker' so most of my phone calls go something like this "Hey, I am on my way, I'll see you in a few. Ok, bye." Which probably helps since phone calls are the main battery suckers, but I also use the phone for twitter, texting, and viewing a web page here and there throughout the day. I even used the flashlight feature and took a lot of pictures and videos at a concert without a problem.
I have forgotten to plug the phone in over night and still normally have close 50% left on the battery. The best thing is, when I plug it in, it seems to charge to 100% very fast - like 15/30 minutes of charging I am at 100%.
For long road trips, I ordered a car charge on Amazon for 1 cent plus $2.50 shipping so I should be set. I am so used to my last phone always being a phone call away from being dead that this phone is a dream come true.
Maybe it is because of the fresh new battery it has. If I find I have issues down the road I'll order the extra large evo battery, but so far, no need.