The title of this thread is "where is the 4.3 update for the Verizon Galaxy S3?", is it not? All kinds of back and forth about S3 owners getting what they paid for and not understanding why other carriers got their updatrs and so on and so forth. Therefore it's relevant because I'm explaining where the update is, and why! It's in limbo, and again, it's in limbo because of what happened when it was pushed to be the S4. Verizon, fortunately, caught it due to only releasing limited OTA's, again, to the S4. They realized that since users of the S4 were having problems with the 4.3 update that S3 users would most likely have problems with the same update if they pushed it to their phone , or at least they didn't want to take that chance. I commend them for that. They could have released it to all S4, S3 and Galaxy tabs (like Apple does with the I Phone) and we might all be having issues. No conspiracy, no Verizon incompetence, just a carrier suspending a faulty update to keep us S3 users from going through what S4 users have experienced. My apologies for not being more clear in my other post. I thought it would lend some clarity to the original question.
Also Stonemadman, if you don't think it will be any worse than 4.1.2 be the guinea pig for us and go ahead and find a leaked version and update, but please let everyone know how it works out for you. Maybe it will take and the door will be back open for further discussion

In the mean time I'm good where I'm at, just as others have stated in this thread. At the same time I'm disappointed (but not surprised) with some of the contributors here and on other threads who would rather pick a post apart that was meant to help instead of taking the time to re-read it and make an effort to comprehend how it ties into the origin of the thread.
But that's just me, I'm sure.